The most sexy thing in the world is being alive, confident, active and interesting.
So says Melanie Reid, who has been paralysed from the head down in a riding accident. She goes on to say “after my accident, reduced to a bag of bones for the first time in my life…great bony shoulders and visible ribs and fleshless hollow armpits…. this was the look I once craved but never like this, slumped helpless in a chair.”
Be alive, confident and interesting. Next time you berate yourself for being too fat, just repeat it as a mantra. That’s all that matters, being alive and being able to move around without a pulley. That’s really all that matters.